Our Youth Need to Learn the Art of Disagreeing

Are our youth ready for the political arena or are they more interested in putting on a verbal show?

As Namibia gears up for another election, one might think we’ve traded in ballots for boxing gloves.

Scrolling through social media, you’d be forgiven for thinking Namibia’s youth have joined some kind of national roast – throwing insults and taking jabs at one another as if this election will determine the best trash talker.

Sadly, these back-and-forths create needless conflict, sometimes even breaking friendships over a situation that will pass come November’s results.

Older Namibians, our seasoned political participants, seem to have learned (mostly) the art of agreeing to disagree.

They know you can spar in the political ring without bruising relationships outside of it.

This wisdom was eloquently summed up by our late president Hage Geingob, who often advised: “Play the ball and not the person.”

Yet, too many so-called ‘future leaders’ ignore this advice, turning politics into personal attack marathons, fueled by emotions rather than information.

‘IGNORANCE IS NOT BLISS’

Many young Namibians go to extreme lengths to defend their affiliations.

Ironically, some of these passionate individuals don’t get a cent from the parties they defend so vehemently.

Meanwhile, politicians in the political game full-time, tend to be restrained (mostly), adding light-hearted remarks here and there but not crossing the line into outright hostility.

One could argue that ignorance is partly to blame.

Some young Namibians lack the necessary knowledge to form well-rounded arguments.

Instead of taking time to educate themselves on issues, research candidates and understand policies, they rely on hearsay, spraying insults and spreading misinformation.

This approach doesn’t win over anyone; it only amplifies divisions and fosters resentment.

KNOWLEDGE IS POWER

Political seasons, especially election years, should be prime learning opportunities.

These are the times for young people to ask questions, to learn about the intricacies of policy-making and to form their own informed political opinions.

As the saying goes, ‘knowledge is power’ but unfortunately it’s a power many choose not to wield.

We need to remember that “your political rival is not your enemy”.

At the end of the day, we’re all Namibians. If we can’t respect each other’s views, what does it say about our readiness for democracy?

Everyone has the right to support their chosen party, and there’s no harm in discussing or debating opinions. But let’s do it with respect.

After all, once the votes are counted, life will go on and we’ll still have to coexist.

The effects of political immaturity go beyond campaign season.

Political disagreements are temporary, but the peace and stability of our country are priceless and worth protecting.

It’s high time that we, as Namibian youth, take a step back and see the bigger picture.

As fun as it may be to throw a witty jab, insults don’t win supporters.

Elections come and go, but the friendships, family bonds and community connections we share will endure.

LET’S MEET THE MOMENT

Political education can make a difference.

We’re taught how to vote but what about how to behave during campaign seasons?

Especially for first-time voters, there should be an emphasis on understanding how to approach political discussions.

We need workshops, school programmes and even community discussions that teach the youth how to effectively engage in politics.

Let’s equip our young people with the tools to discuss, debate and respect differing viewpoints rather than rushing to insults.

Let’s take a deep breath.

Let’s remember that Namibia is bigger than any political party or candidate.

Let’s debate, let’s discuss, but let’s not destroy relationships.

Life will continue after the votes are counted.

Let’s prove we’re not just Namibia’s future leaders but also wise and informed leaders.

So, as we edge closer to D-Day, 27 November, let’s keep our eyes on the ball, not the player.

• * Asser Kapula is a youth advocate and the founder of Future Ready Solutions Namibia, a youth-led organisation focused on empowering young people. This article is written in his personal capacity; email: [email protected]